married and confussed
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married and confussed
| Thu, 09-16-2004 - 3:07pm |
I have been married for 2 years to a man I feel in love with. He gave me the security I needed in my life at that time. But, recently I have been sleeping with a man who has been my friend for years and my lover off and on. I don't know what to do... My lover gives me more than my husband. He makes me feel alive. I get a feeling from him that my husband has never been able to give me. Me and my lover seem to think alike, finish each others sentences. His touch sends chills through me.. It seems as if my husband only thinks of himself. He stays out late-sometimes doesn't come home.. He said after a long day of working, he needs time alone. Did I marry the wrong man?
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| Thu, 09-16-2004 - 3:23pm |
It sounds like to me you married the wrong man. love shouldnt fizzle out if you truley love that person. You describe the feeling of chills running through you, to me that is love. I have experienced it myself. If you sit at home at night not really wondering why your husband is out late, but at the same time cant wait to be with your lover....then you married the wrong man. I am in a similar situation however I dont have another man in my life, but i am afraid if a man did come along who sent chills through me i would be ready to end my marriage. But it kind of sounds like your husband dont care as much either since he stays out late.
