married yet attracted to another

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Registered: 12-07-2004
married yet attracted to another
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Tue, 12-07-2004 - 9:23am

Hello~
I recently filed for divorce after almost 8 years of marriage and then reconciled with my husband. Before and during our separation, I was attracted to a guy at work. He's a very friendly person but would gaze into my eyes and wink across the room at me. I can tell he is attracted to me too, but he's never made further moves. He's divorced and was married 5 years ago for only 2 years. How can I tell if he's just a player? I don't get why I'm so attracted to him when I'm in love with my husband? I think I'm just curious and need more excitement in my life. Could it be he just likes to flirt or is just being friendly? I confronted him on a few occasions about his flirting and one time he said he was being friendly, the other he admitted his winking was flirting with me.

Can you tell if someone is attracted to you? How?

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Registered: 07-24-2003
Tue, 12-07-2004 - 7:32pm
Hello shadowalz, welcome to the board!