Meant to be together
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| Sun, 04-29-2007 - 1:13pm |
I'm dating this teriffic guy. I've found my soul mate. It is the best feeling ever. I know we care about each other alot. There are only a few things that I am worried about. He has been engaged before. I dont know why the engagement fell through. It is a really rough topic to talk about. I'm a little bit worried that he won't ever get over his ex fiance. How long should I give him to get over his ex? I love my guy alot and I am willing to give him as much time as he needs but I would like to help him get over this hump. Any ideas?
I know are relationship is very strong and I know we care alot about each other. I get parnoid alot. It has to do with my past relationships. How do I over come this? I dont want to ruin my relationship with my guy.

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"Do you still feel you two are meant to be?" Yea I do feel that both of us are meant to be together.
"It felt weird not talking to him but in away it felt kinda good." Through out the day I wanted to talk to him but I didn't. I had to be very strong about it. Let me tell you it was very hard but I proved to myself that I'm a stronger person than I thought I was. He needs to get a taste of his owns medicine.
After I saw him down the hallway today I got this achy feeling in my stomach like something was missing in my life. Its hard to explain it. Just like last week a friend and I went out to see a band. Well I didnt know she invited someone else who she is trying to set me up with. She didnt know that I was seeing someone. I pulled my friend aside and I said I cant do this. I am seeing someone and he is my first priority. Now your friend who you are trying to set me up with all I can do is just be friends with him and that is it. Well all night long I kept on telling her I cant do this. I cant do this. I had that same sick feeling in my stomach that I had today. As I am writing this I am getting this sick feeling in my stomach.
Edited 5/2/2007 10:33 am ET by snafu2006
"I know that feeling - it's a "need". The word "need" has been maligned to be associated with "needy", but when you need a person, it is very consuming on alot of levels: emotional, mental and physical. It is not bad, it can be very good - especially if it affects both parties, but they have to give themselves over to it for it to work well. It's a feeling, like you experienced, that kind of takes over the moment." I kinda no what you mean.
"You probably didnt even feel like watching the band play." No I didnt enjoy watching the band at all. I just wanted to go home.
"Does this guy, the one who you have feelings for, know how strongly you feel about him?" No he doesn't know how strong I feel about him. It has never been talked about. But the actions are speak louder than words for both of us(I believe thats the saying for it).
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