Meet in the middle

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-15-2005
Meet in the middle
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Sun, 02-19-2006 - 2:52pm

I wrote a while ago about being exclusive or boyfriend. I've been going out with him now for 4 months and I finally talked to him about wanting more. I'm 43 and he's 25. He says the age does not bother him. He felt a little pressured at first and I assured him that was not my intention. He says to me that maybe we can meet in the middle. What is that soppose to mean. I don't think there is a middle but I thought I would ask some of you what you thought about that. I have not heard from him by phone for about 5 days since the talk. I've had a couple emails and a TM. I'm not to worried about it, I will not call him though until he calls first. So if anyone has any thoughts on that please send them my way.

Thank you

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-17-2006
Sun, 02-19-2006 - 3:45pm

Alright if he's your boyfriend then why haven't you heard from him in five days? That seems a little wierd to me. I know my boyfriend and I got into a discussion one night thinking everything was worked out and fine. Still haven't heard from him since the beginning of Jan. and it's the middle of Feb. So I think he's either really taking time to consider his options or he's young, dumb & full of cum - I mean there a quite a few 25yr old guys that still aren't ready for the next step in relationships.

Take Care

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-05-2003
Sun, 02-19-2006 - 7:59pm

There is no middle here, either you're together or you're not.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 04-15-2003
Thu, 02-23-2006 - 2:15pm
It doesn't matter what we think meeting in the middle means. What does he mean by it - did you ask exactly what he meant?
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