meeting his friends?
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| Sat, 01-14-2006 - 1:02am |
I met this guy, G, at the beginning of December at speed dating. Afterwards we went out for drinks and both were tipsy and I ended up in his bed. Then it was Christmas and we were both busy and then he went out of town and came back shortly after new years. We've exchanged a couple of messages and we've spoken on the phone a few times (only short conversations).
So all in all, I've seen him twice. I really thought it was just a one night stand and he was out of the picture but no... a few days ago he messaged me and asked me out for drinks again. I said ok and we made a date. Then today he called and asked me if I was free to go for a drink with his friends tomorrow afternoon... and if I am not free then he'll catch up with me on Tuesday.
What I don't get is, why is he asking me to go for drinks with his friends? Does it mean he likes me and wants me to meet his friends? or am I just a friend and since he is seeing his friends he may as well kill 2 birds with one stone and get me to come along as well? It seems too early to meet his friends (I've only met him twice and still don't know that much about him).
Thanks.

Hey Ms. Mushroom!
Meeting friends all depends on the person. For some, meeting their friends is HUGE. For others, they'll invite everyone out to meet the friends. But either way, he likes you enough to have you hang around his buddies so I would think it's a good thing.
Stop overthinking things! ;o)
Hello Ms Bklynchik!! Great to "see" you here too!! Thanks for your post!
Well that was G#1 I was talking about! Now it's all over (see my post in the OLD board). Anyway, he got me confused for a while cos I thought either he wanted me to meet his buddies (as a potential gf) or he saw me as one of his buddies... Well, if it was the first reason... ooops... poor guy! But then again, last time I saw him was a few days before Christmas (although he was away between boxing day and New Years)... if you're serious about a girl, you wouldn't leave it til that long to see her again right?