Actually just writing about selling the stuff got me motivated and I listed them on e-bay this morning. Now I just have to wait until someone buys them.
I can respect that you don't normally contact the guy. Maybe more time is needed for you to be in a better place. You know the saying "If you love someone and let them go. If they come back they are yours. If they don't they never were". I do think that he should contact you first b/c he was the one to make the mistake. I also think that if you contacted him first you are basically saying to him you can treat me bad and I will still love you. So you might be correct in not contacting him. But I am also a firm believer that in order to heal you have to dress the wound. Right now you are not healing your just in limbo. So it's a tough call. I always make the first contact b/c I am one of those people that don't feel healed until I say what I have to say to him/her. It's hit and miss when I do that. Sometimes it works and sometimes it doesn't. I ALWAYS regret doing it when it doesn't work. You will do what is right for yourself, when it feels right. In the mean time you can post to me to help work it out. I know writing it out helps too.
Men are typically less sentimental than women (but that's a huge generalization, I don't know your ex obviously) so perhaps alot of it is that he really likes the item.
It is a good sign that your ex learns from his mistakes...otherwise you'd be banging your head up against the wall trying to "train" him to be a good person.
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Men are typically less sentimental than women (but that's a huge generalization, I don't know your ex obviously) so perhaps alot of it is that he really likes the item.
It is a good sign that your ex learns from his mistakes...otherwise you'd be banging your head up against the wall trying to "train" him to be a good person.
Hi girl!
Glad to hear you got your apology!!
No, he does not normally write songs to me - this was the first one :)
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