memento

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Registered: 10-09-2007
memento
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Tue, 10-09-2007 - 9:39pm

My boyfriend and I brokeup a couple of months ago.

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Registered: 08-26-2007
In reply to: allieshmatt
Sat, 10-13-2007 - 2:52pm
Actually just writing about selling the stuff got me motivated and I listed them on e-bay this morning. Now I just have to wait until someone buys them.
LG
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Registered: 11-30-2006
In reply to: allieshmatt
Sat, 10-13-2007 - 3:11pm
Reading about these bracelets and jewelry items had gotten me thinking.
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Registered: 10-09-2007
In reply to: allieshmatt
Sat, 10-13-2007 - 5:50pm
OMG, that is such crap what that guy did!
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Registered: 10-09-2007
In reply to: allieshmatt
Sun, 10-14-2007 - 11:57pm
I can respect that you don't normally contact the guy. Maybe more time is needed for you to be in a better place. You know the saying "If you love someone and let them go. If they come back they are yours. If they don't they never were". I do think that he should contact you first b/c he was the one to make the mistake. I also think that if you contacted him first you are basically saying to him you can treat me bad and I will still love you. So you might be correct in not contacting him. But I am also a firm believer that in order to heal you have to dress the wound. Right now you are not healing your just in limbo. So it's a tough call. I always make the first contact b/c I am one of those people that don't feel healed until I say what I have to say to him/her. It's hit and miss when I do that. Sometimes it works and sometimes it doesn't. I ALWAYS regret doing it when it doesn't work. You will do what is right for yourself, when it feels right. In the mean time you can post to me to help work it out. I know writing it out helps too.
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Registered: 04-15-2003
In reply to: allieshmatt
Mon, 10-15-2007 - 8:12am

Men are typically less sentimental than women (but that's a huge generalization, I don't know your ex obviously) so perhaps alot of it is that he really likes the item.

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Registered: 10-09-2007
In reply to: allieshmatt
Mon, 10-15-2007 - 9:31pm
Yah, he is actually very sentimental.
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Registered: 11-30-2006
In reply to: allieshmatt
Wed, 10-17-2007 - 12:22pm

It is a good sign that your ex learns from his mistakes...otherwise you'd be banging your head up against the wall trying to "train" him to be a good person.

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Registered: 10-09-2007
In reply to: allieshmatt
Wed, 10-17-2007 - 4:23pm

Hi girl!

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Registered: 11-30-2006
In reply to: allieshmatt
Thu, 10-18-2007 - 10:54am

Glad to hear you got your apology!!

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Registered: 10-09-2007
In reply to: allieshmatt
Fri, 10-19-2007 - 7:39pm

No, he does not normally write songs to me - this was the first one :)