Men that come on too strong

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Registered: 01-18-2004
Men that come on too strong
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Wed, 05-03-2006 - 7:12pm

What is your thoughts about men who come on too strong?

Cheryl

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Wed, 05-03-2006 - 7:28pm

That it's a red flag and bears watching. It *could* be that he's just so smitten with you he can't help it, but more likely it's a sign of something else (commitment issues, infatuation junkie, needy are just some of the possibilities).

Of course, one woman's "too strong" is another woman's "just right". I don't like it when a guy I've just met calls me every day, for example, whereas some women really like that.

Sheri

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Registered: 01-18-2004
Wed, 05-03-2006 - 7:51pm

I'm inclined to think the worst, and find them exhausting. Wish there was a spray repellant for that, lol.

Cheryl

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Registered: 11-21-2005
Thu, 05-04-2006 - 11:49am

It's kind of a turnoff to me sometimes.

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Registered: 04-15-2003
Thu, 05-04-2006 - 5:02pm
Well on a superficial very basic, non-nuanced level they're either desperate or in love with the chase. I'm talking men who barely know you and come on like gangbusters, must have you!
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