Men dumping women

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Registered: 05-17-2004
Men dumping women
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Tue, 06-08-2004 - 1:50am
Why is it harder on a women when she gets dumped? I noticed most women like to do the dumping, but how hard is it on a women, when she gets dumped? Why does she still hang around after she's been dumped?

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Registered: 08-20-2003
In reply to: djrazr
Tue, 06-08-2004 - 9:07am
Not to be rude, but I think you have some faulty assumptions and overly broad generalizations here. Why do you assume most women like to do the dumping? I've been dumped about the same number of times as I've done the dumping, maybe slightly more. As far as how much it hurts, that depends on a lot of things, like how long I've been dating the guy. And, no, I don't hang around after being dumped. Even if the ex and I were great friends before we started dating, I always have take time off away from him for my own sanity before resuming the friendship (if I ever do and only if he's making an effort, too). I certainly don't hang around where I'm not wanted. Funny thing about me, someone showing a lack of interest in me kills any attraction I have for him.

Texas Rose