Met this girl BUT, call, mixed signals?
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| Sat, 08-07-2004 - 5:49pm |
The night went on, and me and her made eye contact from distance. She basically danced with him the whole nite while i was dancing with others. I didnt see any physical contact between them the whole night. Later on that evening, another friend walked in from years ago, and i started talking to her, while the 2 other guys were talking together, since they havent seen eachother in years also. She revealed that she doesnt have a bf and that they broke up 6 months ago. He started getting into drugs and gangs etc...
She was touching me the whole time, basically with her arm against mine. Neither of us removed are arms.The convo was great. Assuming she was single, I ended up asking for her number, and she says "sure", so i gave her my cell and she inputed it right in front of him. If she was with this guy, she wouldnt have gave me her # right in front of him right? He had this look on his face like he was upset. She said she grew up with him. Thats why they know eachother, so i said cool. We kept talking, and he interrupted and asked her to dance again. She placed her hand on my chest and says "it was very nice to meet you"
So they went and danced. The night ended and she couldnt even say goodbye, but she kept looking at me. I talked to my friend and he was cool about it, not showing any action in why i got her #. They both got into they're separate cars and left, and i left with my friends.
i dont know if i should call her today. Sounded like she was throwing me mixed signals? I was thinking of laying low and call her tommorrow for lunch? What do you think? I dont want to come off as too desperate like i dont have a life or something, but dammmm i want her! Im not into playing games. Thinking about calling her later on today to see if she wants to go out to a club just to hang out kinda. Maybe lunch later on this week or something? Input? I dont want to get put into the friendship zone

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Sheri
But...she willingly gave you her number in front of the others, so she's obviously keen on some level. Ask her for the dinner date. I think you'll find out soon enough if you're compatible, or if there's potential.
I'd suggest dinner over lunch simply because it's sometimes harder to talk over a lunchtime crowd, which is generally louder, with people talking on phones and still doing business over their food.
If you want her to have no doubt in her mind as to your intentions, ask her out for dinner at nice place (but it need not be expensive...it's the atmosphere and type of place that counts, not how much it costs), pick her up (if she feels comfortable with that...she may not), pay for her, etc.
Sheri
If she flakes on you........NEXT her.. You have nothing to lose
She likes you and you can bet, she is waiting for your call and will be happy to hear your voice when you do call her. There is that chance you'll get her voicemail. Just leave a message stating who it is and your #, and too call you back. That's it. When you get her voice, ask her out.
I only spoke with her for about 5 minutes friday night. I left a message saying "hey _____, its _____, give me a call, my # is _______. That's all i said. Now for sure, i'll see if she's a flake or not. I'll chit chat for a little when i do talk to her for a couple minutes and seal it with a date for saturday night! Save the conversation for saturday
whatcha think?
Fab, have you tried the online dating thing, or meeting people outside of clubs? Seems to me you're just meeting the same type of girl and although you might be attracted to them in some sense, they're not really doing it for you in a relationship sense. Just curious.
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