Met this girl BUT, call, mixed signals?

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Registered: 07-17-2004
Met this girl BUT, call, mixed signals?
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Sat, 08-07-2004 - 5:49pm
I went out with some friends last nite to a local club. I seen an old friend from about 5 years ago that i used to hoop with. He had some hot babe with him. I went up to him and talked to him, and she introduced herself to me. I did'nt know if they were together, so i asked him, and he says that she is just a friend and that she has a bf. He lives almost 2 hours away. They were suppose to get together with other friends (circle) but it ended up being just them 2 - this is what she said

The night went on, and me and her made eye contact from distance. She basically danced with him the whole nite while i was dancing with others. I didnt see any physical contact between them the whole night. Later on that evening, another friend walked in from years ago, and i started talking to her, while the 2 other guys were talking together, since they havent seen eachother in years also. She revealed that she doesnt have a bf and that they broke up 6 months ago. He started getting into drugs and gangs etc...

She was touching me the whole time, basically with her arm against mine. Neither of us removed are arms.The convo was great. Assuming she was single, I ended up asking for her number, and she says "sure", so i gave her my cell and she inputed it right in front of him. If she was with this guy, she wouldnt have gave me her # right in front of him right? He had this look on his face like he was upset. She said she grew up with him. Thats why they know eachother, so i said cool. We kept talking, and he interrupted and asked her to dance again. She placed her hand on my chest and says "it was very nice to meet you"

So they went and danced. The night ended and she couldnt even say goodbye, but she kept looking at me. I talked to my friend and he was cool about it, not showing any action in why i got her #. They both got into they're separate cars and left, and i left with my friends.

i dont know if i should call her today. Sounded like she was throwing me mixed signals? I was thinking of laying low and call her tommorrow for lunch? What do you think? I dont want to come off as too desperate like i dont have a life or something, but dammmm i want her! Im not into playing games. Thinking about calling her later on today to see if she wants to go out to a club just to hang out kinda. Maybe lunch later on this week or something? Input? I dont want to get put into the friendship zone

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Registered: 07-17-2004
Tue, 08-10-2004 - 12:24am
Well.......all i want to do is take her out and see her heads screwed on right. Let things fall where they may. I do this with all the women i meet anywhere. She was very flirtacious with me friday night. I met her through my friend, so i didnt just approach her.

She might just play this game now of making me wait for her call, since she had to wait for mine. She sounds mature. we are both 27, and i remember her saying she is tired of meeting guys younger than her. That's a good sign

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Registered: 05-05-2003
Tue, 08-10-2004 - 2:05pm
Well, I hope she does agree to a date, let us know!!

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