Met a gut - need advice
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Met a gut - need advice
| Tue, 03-13-2007 - 12:37am |
I haven't been on a dating scene for more than a year.
Today a met a guy through searching for a tennis partner. I wasn't looking for a "guy" exactly but he responded and we met today for a tennis play.
He was very handsome which confused me:) And he plays tennis much better than I do and I was worried that he would get bored with me. We didn't talk much during a play.
Anyway after we played he invited me to Jacuzzi & pool at his appartment complex. I got a feeling that that invitation wasn't really appropriate after 2 hours of knowing each other - but maybe I'm old fashioned. I said I didn't have a bathing suit and maybe some other time.
I really want to keep him as my tennis partner but I'm also attracted to him. If anything more is meant to happen between us I want it to be serious otherwise I'd rather have him as a tennis partner.
We agreed to play more tennis together
How should I act if he invites me to his place again?
Today a met a guy through searching for a tennis partner. I wasn't looking for a "guy" exactly but he responded and we met today for a tennis play.
He was very handsome which confused me:) And he plays tennis much better than I do and I was worried that he would get bored with me. We didn't talk much during a play.
Anyway after we played he invited me to Jacuzzi & pool at his appartment complex. I got a feeling that that invitation wasn't really appropriate after 2 hours of knowing each other - but maybe I'm old fashioned. I said I didn't have a bathing suit and maybe some other time.
I really want to keep him as my tennis partner but I'm also attracted to him. If anything more is meant to happen between us I want it to be serious otherwise I'd rather have him as a tennis partner.
We agreed to play more tennis together
How should I act if he invites me to his place again?
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| Tue, 03-13-2007 - 9:19am |
Instead of worrying about him inviting you to his place perhaps you should invite him out for coffee or a cold drink after your tennis game.
| Tue, 03-13-2007 - 7:50pm |
You were looking for a tennis partner, I would leave it at that. Don't complicate things. Meet this guy in public at the tennis courts and look elsewhere for dates.

