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| Tue, 06-29-2004 - 3:01pm |
I live in a four story apartment with a balcony that looks over an alley. On the other side of the alley are a few houses, one of which has a balcony that faces mine. I was sitting outside on friday night, just as a wicked thunder storm was brewing. i was working on a new song (I sing and play the guitar), so I was out there singing my little heart out, and I didnt notice when the guy who lives in the house across the alley came outside. Eventually I noticed him (hes definately worth noticing, let me add), and I kepy playing. its started to rain so I put my lyric book and my guitar away, but stayed outside for awhile longer. I got up to go back in, eventually, and he stood up and leaned over his railing and yelled 'you have a beautiful voice'. I yelled back 'I didnt know you could hear me!'. We started talking about the weather (it was pouring and we were soaked) and where we were from, and he asked if I had a phone number. I told him I wasnt about to yell it across an alleyway, but if he wanted to tell me his, I would call him.
We talked on the phone for a bit, and he called me the next day, and invited me to a bbq. I didnt feel it would be safe to go to a strangers house with a man I didnt know, so I declined. later that night someone pranked me a few times, and right after, he called me. I told him about it, and I was really upset. He took the 'mans role', was very asertive and calming, and sincere, and instanly I was like 'wow, I like this guy!'
He called me on sunday night and could only talk for a couple minutes, but he said he would call me on monday. He didnt call.
I called him from work this morning, and left a message saying 'I figured you were out, but I am at work and bored, and I thought I would call and say hi, and that I am thinking of you....' (and then I thought, oh no, did I say that out loud???), and said 'yeah, i dont know why, but I am. I will be home later if you want to call, and if not, have a fabulous night!'
was that too forward? I know maybe I am being over anylitical about this, and I shouldnt be, but I feel like I really made myself vulnerable.. especually becuase last ngiht he didnt call when he said he would. And becuase we have never really spent any time together...
We talked on the phone for a bit, and he called me the next day, and invited me to a bbq. I didnt feel it would be safe to go to a strangers house with a man I didnt know, so I declined. later that night someone pranked me a few times, and right after, he called me. I told him about it, and I was really upset. He took the 'mans role', was very asertive and calming, and sincere, and instanly I was like 'wow, I like this guy!'
He called me on sunday night and could only talk for a couple minutes, but he said he would call me on monday. He didnt call.
I called him from work this morning, and left a message saying 'I figured you were out, but I am at work and bored, and I thought I would call and say hi, and that I am thinking of you....' (and then I thought, oh no, did I say that out loud???), and said 'yeah, i dont know why, but I am. I will be home later if you want to call, and if not, have a fabulous night!'
was that too forward? I know maybe I am being over anylitical about this, and I shouldnt be, but I feel like I really made myself vulnerable.. especually becuase last ngiht he didnt call when he said he would. And becuase we have never really spent any time together...
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| Sun, 07-04-2004 - 2:15pm |
Hello sangharae!

Actually, there really are no rules so you really didn't break any. Now, that should make you feel a little more comfortable.
