met at speed dating

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Registered: 07-09-2004
met at speed dating
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Sat, 03-04-2006 - 4:05pm

I met this guy at speed dating 2 weeks ago. I liked him the moment he walked into the bar. Anyway, we both said yes on our cards so we met up for dinner. After dinner, he wanted to go for some gelato and we ended up in his apartment... and pretty much shortly we arrived there we started making out.

I really feel the chemistry and I think he feels the same too. When I was leaving we kissed a couple of times and he kissed me on my forehead and I feel he is into me- correct me if I am wrong here!! When I asked if I would see him again, he said yes and he will call me when he gets back in town on Thursday (he is leaving for a business trip at the beginning of the week).

For once, I feel everything feels right. I would hate to think that he is dating another girl, although it is possible, especially we met on speed dating.

Ladies, what is your experience with speed dating? Do guys date a couple of girls at the same time?

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Registered: 01-01-2006
Tue, 03-07-2006 - 2:46pm

No doubt about it, it's a great way to meet a lot of people quickly, esp for those of us who haven't learned the fine art of circulating at parties where singles hang out, or who don't get invited to them.

But that's not the topic of this thread...Clara is asking us if we think the guy she just met at speed dating is seeing other people...before she's even dated him...

My observation is this: Clara seems like a sensitive, sincere person that has her expectation meter set too high for speed dating.

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Registered: 04-15-2003
Thu, 03-09-2006 - 5:22pm

It doesn't mattet how you meet, what happens once you meet is between the two o fyou and at this point you are basically strangers so there is no commitment or loyalty demands on either side. But on the second date maybe you want to get to know him a little better before going back to the apt - it's great to have a sexual chemistry but you want to see if there are other potential connections a well.

Sherry

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