mind games,cheating or its just me?

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Registered: 09-28-2007
mind games,cheating or its just me?
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Sat, 09-29-2007 - 11:24pm








I have been with my partner for 5yrs,the first year was great the following 2 he spent in prison and the last 2yrs he has lived on and off abroad and me and our son just go along with it.My problem is i don't trust him one little bit.Our first year together he was still married,which i new but he said they where seperated.Anyway loads of unexplained girls numbers,make-up on clothes,never home,use's his other 2 older boys as excuses about his whereabouts knowing i can't check.


I find txts on his phone from dating agencies saying "we have found love in your area,here is your match"That he will blame his sons using his phone because they have no cred.He is a very generous person and can afford to be but hes a right minge-bag with me,never use to be but then again its like he has to rebel and now he lives with me am the enermy.


Dont see him all-day,he comes home maybe 9pm,10pm or later then falls asleep with-in 20mins or moans he has sore chest,back,neck,head-ache and then goes to bed.After i have fed &watered,pulled sheets back,opened window and tucked him in.


I dont think am explaining properley,this is because its late and he keeps shouting me to bed but after what he said tonight i couldnt sleep.


Couldnt even start to write what he says to me from day to day,there just isnt enough days in the year!


Thanks for reading........................


Jennyx


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Registered: 05-05-2003
Sun, 09-30-2007 - 1:15am
To quote Dr. Phil: "how's that working for you?"


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Registered: 11-30-2006
Sun, 09-30-2007 - 11:24am
It could be all those things like mind games, cheating and you and him.