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mixed signals
| Mon, 03-26-2007 - 4:28pm |
hey, hope you can help with this dilemma. i met a nice guy at a local hangout. we see each other often and occasionaly we talk. i'm getting mixed signals from him. he acts interested when we talk and does the whole eye-contact thing. but he has never asked for my number/email. he talks about how we should do this or that together but has never asked me out. he does not have a girlfriend. do you think he is a mental case, or is that "normal" for a guy? have you ever experienced anything like that?

How do you know for sure he doesn't have a girlfriend? I've had this happen to me also with a guy that SEEMED interested in me. He'd always say, we've got to get together sometime, or I have to get your number so we can get together, what types of things do you like to do? This went on and on for months where I got sick and bored with it. Turned out I found out from a mutual friend of ours, that he indeed had a girlfriend that he was living with but they were having problems. I guess on the days that they had problems, he needed to know that I was there for back up. I'm sorry, I'm nobody's back up. I chalked that experience off as he just was not into me if he couldn't ask me out and follow through with it.