more than friends??

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-14-2007
more than friends??
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Fri, 09-14-2007 - 3:01pm

I apologize that this is long but it is a complicated situation and I want to make sure its understood.

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-02-2007
Fri, 09-14-2007 - 4:22pm

Why worry about why you haven't heard from him, if you are ok with just friends.

1. He's married (maybe his wife found out what a cheating liar he is)
2. You only know what he has told you, you are not in his marriage (they very rarely say they are happily married)
3. Something has happened,if nothing else but a Emotional affair. (which can be just as damaging)
4. Why is it taking months just to file for divorce? (I think he is telling you a load of crap)
5. While married, you shouldn't be friends unless his wife knows all about you. (I think men and women can be just friends, IF there is no sexual attraction)
6. Even if he did get divorced (which sounds doubtful) relationships that start out as this one has very rarely ever end up on the good side.
7. If you were the wife how would you feel if your husband did this with someone?

Think about what you are getting into here, he hasn't responded back to you, let it go, and find someone that is not involved with someone else.

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-30-2006
Fri, 09-14-2007 - 4:45pm

The disappearing act must have to do with the wife or he is gravely injured.

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-06-2004
Fri, 09-14-2007 - 6:16pm

Why were you flirting with a married man and allowing inappropriate conversations to repeatedly take place? That's not what real friends do.

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Registered: 08-07-2007
Fri, 09-14-2007 - 6:47pm

No offense, I think he is simply cheap and just wanted someone that he could flirt around to reinforce his bloody ego!

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Registered: 08-04-2003
Fri, 09-14-2007 - 10:40pm

Hi mustang_babe,


The two of you have been playing with fire - flirting, crossing boundaries, inappropriate behavior etc. - the cocaine of romance - an emotional affair, NOT


Carrie