more than just friends?

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Registered: 10-29-2005
more than just friends?
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Sat, 10-29-2005 - 11:18pm

My best friend moved away 12 years ago. WE just meet back up. We have been spending megga amounts of time together. Even hours at a time on the phone. We talk about how we felt back then, and that we still have the hots for each other. I was at his house, and we were just lying there talking and holding each other. I got lost in his eyes, and we had sex. It was like he was making love to me. Before we did this he told me, that he has been hurt in the past, and is not ready to start a serious relationship, but has not ruled out dating me. He just found out that he will be moving about 2 hours away in a month.
We have been talking, and we tell each other how hard it is going to be without each other. He tells me all the time that he misses me the second I leave. I know I shouldn't but I am falling madly in love with him. Everytime we see each other we can't resist kissing. When we do have sex, he is all about pleasing me,and what I want.

Should I tell him how I feel, even though I know he doesn't feel the same way, he has pretty much bluntly told me, "that he loves me, he is just not in love with me, not yet anyway"

He leaves in 2 weeks, what should I do???

PLEASE HELP!

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-05-2003
Sun, 10-30-2005 - 12:56am

He already knows how you feel about him, and he's told you he's not interested in a relationship with you, so I'm not sure that telling him again will change anything.

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