Mother of fiance' does not include me
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Mother of fiance' does not include me
| Tue, 06-19-2007 - 9:10pm |
i have been dating a guy now for over 2 years. we have a 15 month old baby. we do not live together yet. i was wondering if anyone else has had a problem with their significant other's mother or parents? i think fathers just follow the mothers though. anyway, when my fiance takes our son over to his mom and dad's house he always goes when i am at work and they never invite me over. this really bothers me alot. i tell my fiance but he acts like it shouldn't. his mother acted like she was embarrassed of me when i was pregnant and didn't want me at any family functions because of their catholic religion. my family doesn't live in town and this is really upsetting. i think my fiance should include me if his parents won't. i email his mom and try to befriend her - sometimes she responds, sometimes she doesn't. she tells my fiance that she doesn't want to get too close in case it doesn't work out. i think it's crap. i think we have a child together and she should make an effort if she wants me to feel welcome. i just can't believe people can be so cold. i have asked to babysit our son and she won't respond to me in email or answer her phone but asks her son to ask her. she never visits our son but my fiance takes him to her about once a month. the whole thing is just so old and i'm sick of trying to be included. i guess i'll just give up. i think it's unfair and i shouldn't have to try so hard. how can i make him understand how i feel?

Hi sooner05,
Sounds to me that he already knows how you feel and he doesn't care. He's either keeping you away from his parents because that's the way he wants it or that's the way they want it.