my bf has an issue with asking to see me

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-15-2004
my bf has an issue with asking to see me
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Sun, 11-14-2004 - 7:53pm
I have been with my bf for two years on and off, ever since we met, i could tell that he felt isncure asking me to see him. therefroe it was always me asking him, the only thing he would do is hint, and then i have to ask him.

i told him if he is afraid of asking me out or something, he didnt say anything, he was just quite, then he finally asked me which is very very rare. but it had been soooo long since we have seen each other, becasue i chose not to ask him to see me anymore.

i just dont get it, what could it be, what could possibley cause that? I've asked him if he doesnt like seeing me or spending time with me, but then he wouldnt be with me if he didnt? i dont know im just wondering.

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-10-2003
Sun, 11-14-2004 - 10:02pm
If this has been the pattern for two years, why do you wonder now about his behavior? It's this simple: he doesn't ask you out or to see you because he doesn't want to. It seems that nothing is preventing him from doing so then it should be because he simple doesn't want to. Are you happy with this relationship? If you are then get used to always ask him to see you. If not, then look for another man who is willing to ask you out.