My boyfriend won't give me Oral!!!

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Registered: 08-17-2004
My boyfriend won't give me Oral!!!
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Tue, 10-19-2004 - 5:27am
Hi! I have a major crisis! My boyfriend of over a year refuses to give me Oral. The problem is that we broke up once for a little over a month and I had sex with other men in that period of time. When I realized how much I loved him We started going back out and I got a "pap test" and the results said I was Clean. Yet, he still won't go down on me.... (Note:He has before). I go down on him all the time and I just don't think it's fair....What can I do to get him to go down on me??I really want him to!! Thanks.

~Tara

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Registered: 06-20-2004
Tue, 10-19-2004 - 8:30am
Well when I was first dating my exhusband he wouldn't do it, probably because of lack of experience, we were only 19. So I didn't go down on him at all. I figure, what's good for the goose...so after about a month of not getting a bj at all, he did it A LOT!!!!

Personally I would think your boyfriend is being selfish. Maybe he's not a great catch if he's so petty as to not go down on you because you were involved with someone when you were broken up.

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Registered: 05-05-2003
Tue, 10-19-2004 - 4:24pm
So let me guess...

It's OK for there to be kissing.

It's OK for there to be blow jobs.

It's OK for there to be sex.

But for YOUR satisfaction, there'll be none of that.

Sounds petty and imature.

DUMP HIM and find a real guy who's into you and not just into himself. There's nothing you can DO to make him start giving you what you want. He's using your desire for it as a tool to get back at you. Doesn't sound like an adult relationship to me.

Alison

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