My gut instinct tells me she's no good

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Registered: 05-17-2004
My gut instinct tells me she's no good
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Sun, 07-16-2006 - 2:57am

This is still kinda fresh

I was dating this chic for about 2 months. Everything was all good, had plenty of things in common. Went out had fun, the sex was banging, and to this day she has given me the best *******s ever! Everytime that i've called her she's answered the phone. It was rare that she didnt and if she did, she would call me back fairly quickly. I've paid for every single thing we went out, even though she would try i paid for everything. On 1 occasion during sex at 1am while she was giving me a bj, her CELL rings!!!!!!!!!!! I just ignored it, and i finished up as she swallows. I told her in a nonchalant playful way to call back whoever called her because obviously whoever it was wanted to talk to her.

About 2 weeks ago we went out, went back to her place and i told her i would be coming back later that same night. She paused for a sec and then said ok. About an hour from there, she calls me and tells me she aint feeling good. HHHmmmm, so i said ok. I called her back an hour from there and said i was coming over and again reinerated she aint feeling good. So i said whatever and went out with my boys

We didnt speak the next day so the following workday i shot her an email and she never replied to it. I let 4 days pass with no contact and i called her only to get her vm. She called back and we spoke a little bit, and i told her i was coming over to see her. She then says she's grumpy and that she's going to bed early

So for the past 2 weeks she's been distant and something's telling me that some other dudes around. Even though i cant actually prove that to be true, that is what my gut instinct is telling me. I havent seen her in 2 weeks and she wont even bother to initiate contact. She became suddenly distant and cold. It's been only 2 months so i been going out meeting other chics.

Yesterday i get a friends request on myspace from her. I never knew she was on there. My profile is set to private so nobody can see it but my friends. I actually denied her request because i thinks she's playing mindable with me. She'll see who my friends are and start *****ing. We never got into an argument nor did we say it's over or broke up. Things just stopped happening. I went outta my way to see her working more than 50% and she wont budge all of a sudden. It's like it's up in the air, and i feel it's just best to ignore her for now

What are your guys thought? Am i on the right tracK?

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Registered: 03-28-2003
Sun, 07-16-2006 - 7:58am
You attitude sounds very piggish. Maybe she just got tired of it. Iri
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Registered: 05-17-2004
Sun, 07-16-2006 - 12:49pm
How does my attitude sound piggish?
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Registered: 03-28-2003
Sun, 07-16-2006 - 2:55pm
Your post was about having your penis sucked on by a "chic". Although I am sure it was good for "little dj" --- I have a feeling the ex was not a sexually satisfied customer. OINK. Iri