my guy lied about his age- he's older!
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my guy lied about his age- he's older!
| Wed, 08-18-2004 - 7:04pm |
I went on the most PERFECT date last weekend and met a wonderful guy. However, come Monday, my blissful bubble burst when I found out that he lied about his age. He told me he was 35 but is actually 39. I am 24. I have a suspicion that he told me he was younger because I would have freaked out if I knew how old he really was, and the truth is, I would have. Now, I'm more concerned that he lied to me than I am about his age. How do I let him know that I know his secret? Should I also take this as a sign that I can't trust him?

However 24 and 35 is.
So if that makes you unhappy, don't see him anymore.
That said, if it is true: if he can so easily lie about the little things to try and get with you, he can lie about the big things too. Face it, he didn't lie about his age for any reason other than to get you interested. He knew that if he was 39 you would have said no thanks. Even 35 when you're only 24 is a big difference.
Move on.
After reading everyone's responses, it's made me exit that hopeful buzz I've been feeling that this might work. But I am just getting so fed up with guys and their weirdness! The guy I met before this one ended up taking on a serious girlfiend- while we were dating! If this isn't Sex & the City in reality, I don't know WHAT is!
When I was online dating, I had that happen to me, too.
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