my sister is with my now ex-boyfriend
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my sister is with my now ex-boyfriend
| Thu, 07-29-2004 - 4:15pm |
I was with this guy for 6 years. 1 1/2 years ago my younger sister started calling my boyfriend and asking him out. Well he went, I found out it was her. I was so disgusted with him and her. For 2 months he denied it to me about it being her. I finally said I don't believe you and didn't see him anymore. Now after 1 1/2 years they have been together, they are engaged. It makes me sick and my family definately doesn't approve. I don't talk to her anymore. He still calls me, wants to have sex with me, but he said he tells her he doesn't call me. I still can't get over how disgusted I feel. I think about how he touches her like he did me and things like that. Could you tell me what I should do to get over this pain I feel for him and my sister (that I hate)?

I would suggest calling her and saying somethign along the lines of 'you hurt me, and we have issues, but hear me out. He calles me all the time, and askes me to have sex with him. can you be with someone like that?'. If she doesnt beleive you, get call display, and show it to her when she calls. Maybe you hate her, or maybe you are just deeply hurt and covering it with anger becuase it easier (believe me, I do it all the time). If she wont listen to you, live your life knowing that
a)you are so much better of without him, and b)at least you tried to help her.
It's pretty obvious that even though your EX-B/F let you go....YOU NEVER COMPLETELY RECIPROCATED! Now that Sis has him...and will probably end up in a similar situation after a few years...can't you just move forward??
You DON'T have to give them a wedding gift or even show up at the nuptials. He is going to be HER HEADACHE in a few years. Just be happy he's no longer YOURS!
Pianoguy