Near the end and heartbroken
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| Wed, 07-28-2004 - 10:47am |
I see the signs that things could end soon, and it's just so hard. We are at each others throat all of the time now. He's a good guy; not a liar or cheater or an addict of any kind. We just don't see eye to eye on this relationship. We live 1 hour apart and I'm constantly going there, he doesn't have much time for me (works 2 jobs, changing careers), he is not romantic ever (doesn't plan dates, give tokens of affection, etc.) and he is practically broke- he is endlessly complaining about his lack of funds. At 32 years old, I just can't committ to this anymore. He really is a nice guy, but it's just not working and I feel so sad about it.
How do I know that I'm doing the right thing if I allow us to break up? I know that we are both thinking it, but neither one of us is doing the deed. I think I'm the one who sees us headed that way more than him- but I know he's at his breaking point. I'm so confused.

Listen to your heart, it's guiding you the right way- and it's looking out for number one- you.