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| Thu, 10-21-2004 - 4:03pm |
My boyfriend of 14 months recently told me that his kids mother is moving in with him because she has no space for the kids. she used to live with her mother. that's what he said to me. i 've asked him how long but he doesn't know. i told him there's no way i would accept this and that we should breakup. i did'nt ask him to make a choice i just told him want i was going to do. he insisted that we shouldn't breakup and this situation could only make us stronger and closer. i didn't change my mind. he is telling me that he is not sleeping with her and they are not together i'm saying otherwise. he swears that he is not. i don't beleive him at all. now he is saying i should trust. i told him i'm giving up but he begs me not to. i know he and the mother of doesn't get along. i 've decided to move on but sometimes i get confused. 7 months ago he asked me to have his baby and now i'm 3 months preganant. i need advice from any one. thanks in advance

diprinclu...
WHOA!!!
You are 3 months pregnant with his child...and he's permitting his EX to live with him! There's definitely a screw or two loose here? But Pianoguy isn't sure if it's inside your b/f's head...or yours??? OR BOTH?
Where are YOU "moving on" to? What financial support is your b/f planning to provide for your "soon-to-be born child?" Or are you going to be a single mom who expects NOTHING?
If there's a space problem at the EX's home....why can't one of the kiddoes move in with Dad instead of the EX?
I'll bet there's a lot more to this story than you're sharing???
Pianoguy