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| Wed, 09-29-2004 - 1:38pm |
BUT, I have met a very nice guy. We talk on the phone a few times a week and see each other in social settings. But we have gone out twice by ourselves. Once to dinner and a movie and another day we went to a ball game and just spent the entire day together. He's a real sweetheart and knows that I'm still dealing with the break up. We have kissed on several occassions, though. At first it didn't bother me. But for the last 2 days I've been thinking about maybe not talking too/seeing him as much. I don't want him to get the wrong idea. I just don't feel right feeling this way. I have so many unresolved with my ex. It would be wrong to bring THIS MUCH baggage into anything.
So, I guess my question is, what do I do??? Do I say anything to this new guy? Do I just take it one day at a time?? Do I completely stop talking to him until I'm over my ex and what he did to me??

Five weeks is not a very long time to deal with the pain and get yourself back together. You have to work through that pain and sadness, and everyone's timeline is different. Some people bounce back right away, others take longer. You need to focus on you and what you need to heal. It's always disappointing when things end, more so when you're the one wronged. You were in love with this man, and he cheated on you. So not only were you not preparing to break up with the guy, like we often do when things are going badly, but you had the rug pulled out when you found out he was with someone else.
((((((((((((HUGS))))))))))))
You will get through this, but focus on yourself and your time. Don't worry about this other guy.
Alison