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| Wed, 06-23-2004 - 7:10pm |
I need some advice about a possible relatonship. I connected with an old friend about a year ago we actually grew up together and he moved away when we were 10 years old. We started talking over the internet and we were both married at the time. Now we are both separated from our spouses and started innocently flirting over the internet and phone. I actually flew to go see him a few weeks ago and had an amazing weekend with him. To me there was a connection from the second he picked me up at the airport. Problem is I convinced myself when I went that I was going with an open mind and was not going to fall for him but I think I have. He on the other hand has seemed to have taken a step back since I left and came back home. He has children from his marriage and I don't. He has them for the next month and I've gone from hearing from him 3 times a day to whenever he has time to talk. I am totally understanding of him and his children but I am afraid to ask him if his taking a step back has to do with them or something that happened between us. He says he isn't looking for anything special and that since his separation words like "I love you" just aren't in his vocabulary. Which I feel the same way. How do I ask him his true feelings for me without seeming like a love sick teenager. This could certainly have been a rebound for both of us but I'm willing to see if there is more.

Sheri