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| Wed, 03-14-2007 - 2:36pm |
I am currently in a semi long distance relationship- we attend different colleges in different cities. We have been together for two years and I was recently told that he feels "trapped b/c I want to see him all the time". I thought wanting to see him was a good thing! Also, he has forgone seeing me lately for hanging out with his new friend...a girl about our age that also attends his school. I dont want to be clingy and jealous, but I want my man back! HELP!

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Pianoguy thinks you defined the casualty definition of most LDR's (long distance relationships)! One or both partners eventually get restless or bored "being tied down to someone who lives in another state or another country.
This doesn't mean that IT'S IMPOSSIBLE TO KEEP THE RELATIONSHIP GOING!
Only tougher?
Perhaps you should drop up an agreement that it's okay to "date others, but NOT exclusively" while you're still in school? Other than this, you might want to ask HIM to "set you free?"
His reaction will either be: "OKAY"---or he'll do everything he can think of to KEEP YOU?
Wanna give this a try?
Pianoguy
Thanks for the reply! I've thought of asking him to as you say "set me free"...I'm just too terrified that he will!!