Need advice about ex girlfr

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Registered: 10-04-2004
Need advice about ex girlfr
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Mon, 08-29-2005 - 5:19pm
I just need some help on this one if I should even worry about this situation. My boyfreind and me have only been together for one month. From the moment we met eachother we knew that we wanted to be together. We are together almost everyday love being around eachother have so much fun and are crazy about eachother. I know we are still in the beginning phase which is fine we want to take it slow. Problem is and even when I first found this out was hesitant. He just broke up with his ex girlfriend a month before me and they were together for 6 yrs. His friends and even freinds of hers tell me that it was not a good realtionship and that she is a very hard person to get along with. Alot of his freinds are telling me that he was over it even before it ended. They all say that we are way better together and that they were always fighting. He has been very open with me about all of this and says that he does not want to lose me cause he loves being around me. She calls his phone sometimes and he tells her not to or sometimes won't answer and you can tell he is annoyed. He feels bad about it when she calls cause he knows it bothers me but I know this is not his fault. I am trying to not worry about it and let whatever happens happen and if he does go back to her at least I had a great time. But it is hard cause I really want it to work with him. He has already stated that he is not getting back with her and that he wants to be with me. He has also told me that it is such a relif to be with someone and not argue or fight all the time. Do you think I should be worried about this? Or does it sound like he is done with her?
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Mon, 08-29-2005 - 7:47pm
From what you've written, it seems to me that he's acting like he's interested in you and not her. However, I would tread cautiously with this guy. It hasn't been my experience that people coming out of a long term relationship are ready to jump into another long term relationship without having a little fun first. Listen to his words, but pay attention to his actions, too.