Need advice, boyfriend said wrong name
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| Mon, 06-14-2004 - 1:49pm |
Sorry to bother you all but I really need some help with this. I am not sure what to do, how to feel or even if what I am feeling is legit.
This morning, my boyfriend of 11 months and I were having sex. I was going down on him when he said "Oh my gosh Amy." The problem there is my name is not Amy. I got upset and stopped. Explained to him what he said and he told me that he did not say that and if he did he did not mean to say that. He doesn't even know an Amy. But...he does there was this classmate of his named Amy but when I reminded him of her he said, "her name is Jamie I thought?"
Needless to say part of me believes he really did not mean to say that. That he was not thinking of Amy. But the other part of me is actually hurt by the comment. Sex after that was shot, he continued to appologize as I was getting ready for work. Telling me that I know he loves me and ONLY me.
I just really wanted someone to talk to about this annonymously. I mean I am a bit embarrassed by it so I do not want to bring it up to any of my friends. I am not sure wether I should let it go or be upset. More or less I would just like to hear some advice from some people...just something.
I am also questioning to if he said "baby" and not "Amy". Our nicknames for each other are baby. So he could have said "Oh my gosh baby" But for some reason I do not think I heard wrong. Maybe he meant to say baby but it came out Amy?? I don't know. And now I feel like I am making excuses and I am just so confused.
Please help! I really love him and I know he really loves me.
Thanks

It was just weird and I did not know how to react to it. This has never happened to us before. I know my boyfriend loves me and only me. I am just not sure how to put it out of my mind. I keep hearing it over and over in my head.
Thank you for your help/advice!
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Thanks Wendie for your help. I'm starting to feel better already.
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good luck