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| Thu, 03-11-2004 - 10:44pm |
Hi all,
I am a newbie here. I am a bit frustrated.
I go to yoga alot and there is this darling man that is there almost all the times I am there.
My friends have told me that he stares at me when I am going across the room, or talking to someone else. I have approached him and introduced myself. I say Hi everytime, and he puts his yoga mat near me alot.
I always seem to initiate conversation, I wish he would do it too!!
I talked to him today for awhile and he remembered my name from a month ago. He also, (as we were walking) got around me so I was on the inside of the sidewalk. Like a gentlemen or is that a sign of interest?
He told me he would help me with some Ebay stuff I have to sell, but when I asked him if he had a card he said no. I thought he would ask for a # or offer me his. Anyway, I do see him almost everyday so maybe he thought he would just discuss then..
I cannot tell if he is interested, darn. He is younger, 30ish so maybe he is scared. I do look young for my age, but about 35.
Sorry to ramble on, but I am flumexed!!!
Do you think he wants me or not, pleasssse!!!!!!!
I am a newbie here. I am a bit frustrated.
I go to yoga alot and there is this darling man that is there almost all the times I am there.
My friends have told me that he stares at me when I am going across the room, or talking to someone else. I have approached him and introduced myself. I say Hi everytime, and he puts his yoga mat near me alot.
I always seem to initiate conversation, I wish he would do it too!!
I talked to him today for awhile and he remembered my name from a month ago. He also, (as we were walking) got around me so I was on the inside of the sidewalk. Like a gentlemen or is that a sign of interest?
He told me he would help me with some Ebay stuff I have to sell, but when I asked him if he had a card he said no. I thought he would ask for a # or offer me his. Anyway, I do see him almost everyday so maybe he thought he would just discuss then..
I cannot tell if he is interested, darn. He is younger, 30ish so maybe he is scared. I do look young for my age, but about 35.
Sorry to ramble on, but I am flumexed!!!
Do you think he wants me or not, pleasssse!!!!!!!

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And I am just saying about the pot belly, I want to be with someone who cares about their health and appearance.They don't have to have movie star looks, but a healthy, fit body does say alot about someone. It is important to me and shows respect for oneself. It has always been part of my life to stay healthy and fit (and excercising helps out mentally too!!), as well as other important values.
Thanks for all the advice, didn't mean to offend. We all have our preferances!!
Have a great weekend guys!!
So yes I agree that health and fitness say a lot about a person - but to say that only a man with 6pack abs is healthy/fit is inaccurate - many of those men are obsessed with working out and or take steroids and that is way less healthy than having a little tummy, IMHO.
As far as yoga guy - I am not surprised - proves my point again - a man who is sincerely interested and available will ask you out on a proper date. He is not available and that is why he enjoyed being friendly/harmless flirtation, but chose not to take it further - nothing to do with shyness.
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