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| Fri, 08-13-2004 - 12:11pm |
I was dating someone for about a year and last month he broke up with me in an e mail- in the e mail he indicated he wanted to do things as friends obviously without physical intimacy.
He also starting dating someone else which he included in the e mail break up.
I called him and said I didn't think the friendship thing would work and lets discuss it again in 3-6 months and see if that is even of interest to either of us.
He said no that isn't what he wants he wants to spend time with me as a friend and he told the new person he is dating that he would still be seeing me as a friend. I stuck to my guns and he said it was ok if I needed some time to chill
I sent him a closure note saying in the note what I said on the phone so he would get it that this was my decision to make for me.
He was not happy at all with my decision I think probably because I took control over the situation.
He also starting dating someone else which he included in the e mail break up.
I called him and said I didn't think the friendship thing would work and lets discuss it again in 3-6 months and see if that is even of interest to either of us.
He said no that isn't what he wants he wants to spend time with me as a friend and he told the new person he is dating that he would still be seeing me as a friend. I stuck to my guns and he said it was ok if I needed some time to chill
I sent him a closure note saying in the note what I said on the phone so he would get it that this was my decision to make for me.
He was not happy at all with my decision I think probably because I took control over the situation.
If in a few months I hear from him (highly unlikely I know, but just my fantasy right now )
I would like to know what to say to him that indicates in a nice way that I think what and how it did it sucks and that I have moved on with my life.

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He told her he would still be seeing me as a friend and that they would not have an exclusive relationship with her.
I am just glad I am not having to deal with his crap anymore, I don't care who he dates or how he treats them.
I know I deserve someone who wants to be with me and feels priviledged to be with me.
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