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| Fri, 09-17-2004 - 1:20am |
ok i have been with the same guy for about 3 years and we have a 2 year old daughter together. well we have been fighting extremely too much for the past 6 months or so. we have tried and tried working on our relationship over and over again. im not happy and i haven't been for some time now. i don't even think i am in love with him anymore. we have broken up 4 times and gotten back together each time in the past 6 months. what should i do?
also there is another guy that i have been thinking a lot about lately too. i know there is something there between us. but im really scared that if i persue this guy i won't get anywhere because he is a friend of my bf and he made a promise to him that if anything ever happened to him that he would not date me. help me please im am stuck
also there is another guy that i have been thinking a lot about lately too. i know there is something there between us. but im really scared that if i persue this guy i won't get anywhere because he is a friend of my bf and he made a promise to him that if anything ever happened to him that he would not date me. help me please im am stuck

I suggest that you concentrate on what you want to do about your relationship with your current boyfriend instead of jumping into a relationship with his friend. I don't agree with dating ex's friends, but that's just one girl's opinion. Also, I think you should try and keep on good terms with the father of your daughter and if dating his friend will upset him, I don't think that will be a good environment for your daughter. I don't have children and I've never been is this situation, so this is just an outsider's opinion. Feel free to disagree with me, but this is just how I see it.
Good luck!