Need HELP

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Registered: 08-20-2004
Need HELP
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Tue, 08-31-2004 - 9:35am
Okay, so ive been dating this guy for three weeks....we've been out together about once a week. He has never been great about calling. We dont talk on the phone much though. We always have a great time on our dates, and always find out so much we have in common. ...So on our last date(friday) we had a great time, he asked me if i had plans the next day and to call him. On our date, he kept mentioning places we should go in the future. So on saturday I called him, we talked and he asked me what time i had to be at work on sunday(I said 4am)(it was 7 pm on sat at this point) SO then he said, well i dont want to drag you out here if you have to be at work so early(i have an hour 1/2 drive to work)but if you go out tonight, give me a call and we'll meet up. and so I said well would you want to do something tomorrow (sun) He said yeah tomorrow would be good...but I am going to go to bed early(he starts law school monday, its very intense, and he is a studyaholic) but call me. He also said we should go out next weekend and then said "but I'll probably have to study, however, i am going to try and not study on firiday and saturdays" So on sunday, I called him around 5 ...he didnt answer(he never answeres when I call...he always calls back)and its now tuesday morning and he hasn't called. Im thinking he may have had a lot of studying on mon. Should I call him tonight and ask him how school is going or wait....Maybe he never got my voicemail on sunday. Do you think hes lost interest? I can't imagine he has with all the mention of future things he wants to do.













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Registered: 08-10-2003
In reply to: fashiongirl2
Tue, 08-31-2004 - 12:44pm
Hon, it appears that either he's not interested enough to call you or make plans that will come to light OR he's too busy with school. It is possible that he's seeing other women but wants to keep you as a back up, as you seem to be available to him every time. I wouldn't call him and just meet with other poeple. Go about your life and if he calls then you decide if you want to go out. Remember that 3 weeks is a short period of time and he might be dating more women, you should the same and date other guys. Don't put your eggs in just one basket.
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Registered: 08-20-2004
In reply to: fashiongirl2
Tue, 08-31-2004 - 7:10pm
Anyone else have any input??? Guys--do you think i should call him again just to see how school is going. Im thinking of making the call tomorrow. He also mentioned on our date ...after i offered to pay he said, maybe next time if you ask me out, we can work something out. Which he was implying he wanted me to ask, right? But why hasn't he returned sundays call? Busy with school? Didn't get it? I did say call me when you get a chance.