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| Mon, 12-17-2007 - 1:58pm |
I am in need of help its been a few years since i last dated. So i was out on a Sunday night and met someone. Had a nice time no numbers exchanged and so on. Nice flirting and conversation. A few days later he came back in and asked one of my friends where i was. So
my friend called me and the new guy left a message. Not many men have come looking for me and asked someone they did not know where I was. The message he left did say I came to see you and your not here a few times?
So I came out and hung out with him and 2 of his friends for a few hours. Both nights at the end of the night he kissed me goodbye. This 2nd night he says you have my number call me. So I called the next night, nothing, the next day called and he was too busy to talk. Next night called to invite him out and something like you told me to call so i am? The next day he sent a text message saying he was busy when I had called the other day and was getting wet on his bike. Well I didn’t respond to the text until 9 hours later when I went out. I texted him to tell him I was out and he texted me he was in the same town and at another spot. So I texted later if you get a chance swing by. Nothing. So im not sure what all is going on or how I should do things. Some men like the chase, some like to be chased. Im not a game player when it comes to things. Im not clingy i dont want someone around all the time. He did make a big jump by going to a place and asking a total stranger if i was coming. He had no idea who this person was. So he went out of his way and i did my part by calling. I left the i had a nice time and stuff on the voicemail. Im just not used to this nor do i have time with the holidays here and im going out of town in a few days. Im not used to having instant chemistry with someone.
Edited 12/17/2007 3:29 pm ET by cherry0125
my friend called me and the new guy left a message. Not many men have come looking for me and asked someone they did not know where I was. The message he left did say I came to see you and your not here a few times?
So I came out and hung out with him and 2 of his friends for a few hours. Both nights at the end of the night he kissed me goodbye. This 2nd night he says you have my number call me. So I called the next night, nothing, the next day called and he was too busy to talk. Next night called to invite him out and something like you told me to call so i am? The next day he sent a text message saying he was busy when I had called the other day and was getting wet on his bike. Well I didn’t respond to the text until 9 hours later when I went out. I texted him to tell him I was out and he texted me he was in the same town and at another spot. So I texted later if you get a chance swing by. Nothing. So im not sure what all is going on or how I should do things. Some men like the chase, some like to be chased. Im not a game player when it comes to things. Im not clingy i dont want someone around all the time. He did make a big jump by going to a place and asking a total stranger if i was coming. He had no idea who this person was. So he went out of his way and i did my part by calling. I left the i had a nice time and stuff on the voicemail. Im just not used to this nor do i have time with the holidays here and im going out of town in a few days. Im not used to having instant chemistry with someone.
Edited 12/17/2007 3:29 pm ET by cherry0125

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I said "if"... and I still stand by my answer...men have done this to women I have known...testing them taunting them ... to see if they lose control.
If the actions and words dont match..then the words arent sincere.
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