need relationship advice please!

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Registered: 07-02-2003
need relationship advice please!
Wed, 04-14-2004 - 4:51pm
hi all, so here's the deal....i met this guy about a month ago, we have been going out on dates about 2 times a week or so since we met, we usually talk about three times during the week as well. things are going well i think, but sometimes things that he says just makes me think twice.

he is really open about things...he has not been shy at all in telling me that he really like going out with me and hanging out with me, but then he tells me how i am really hard to leave, and i told him that i really like him as well. i admit it is really hard for me to open up sometimes.

anyways, the thing that i am confused about is that well we go to the same school...he is in med school and i am in nursing. he has been really busy this week because he has a test on saturday, which i totally understand. the thing that i dont quite understand is that he called me last night and asked if i wanted to go and get a quik dinner with him, so we met up and had a little something. he acted totally fine, though i could tell that he was pretty stressed, even though he denied it. he brought up this party that is on saturday night and asked if i was going, which i am....it's a party for the entire school, there are about 600 people expected to be there. after i told him that i was going he just kinda ended it there...no i'll meet ya there, no wanna go together...NOTHING! am i reading way too much into this, i am kinda clueless on what to think about that.

also, after we ate and parted ways he just was like see ya, and took off....no hug, no kiss, no talk to ya later, no i'll call ya....nothing again! i feel so confused!

i was gonna call him maybe tomorrow or on friday to wish him good luck on his test, but i don't know...is that kinda smothering him or what. do i call or not? should i wait and call him on saturday after the test and see how it went...i just dont know!

i was even thinking about going to the party...getting all done up, looking real good and just see how he reacts, or what happens...that's just a game i done wanna play though.

any advice on this confusing situation??

thanks, jess