Need some advice

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-24-2003
Need some advice
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Sun, 11-28-2004 - 10:28pm
Hi all-
I'm a 23 year college student who has finally found someone really awesome. He's in one of my classes. He's one of those rare hard to find kind of guys. And I'm wondering, how could he not have a girlfriend. He's a great guy. But anyways, I can't find the courage to ask him to go out. I know, I know, a girl is not supposed to ask a guy out. But I want it to be more of a let's hang out kinda things. He told me, when I told him I didn't have a girlfriend, "that's good to know". He has now moved to sitting in the back of the classroom, where I always sit. He randomly calls me by my nickname. He seems to show interest, but I don't know if I'm supposed to lead onto his hints he has dropped me. How do I do this?!?! I'm so clueless and I stink at this kind of stuff. Someone help me!
Thanks!!!
iVillage Member
Registered: 11-27-2004
Sun, 11-28-2004 - 10:49pm
If he is giving you hints then make the first move....Doesnt hurt to ask him out...As long as he makes the second move of asking you out again...Also make sure he is not gay....
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Registered: 11-10-2004
Thu, 12-02-2004 - 5:45am
Hi michimich,
Bellina here,cheers! Well I quite agree with the last gal who posted.If he's flirting
a bit,seems interested perhaps shy,so be bold and ask him to meet.Perhaps something casual
lunch,or coffees at a Borders,Books type hangout.See if you're feeling mutual in attractions,interests,personalities,etc..Then leave friendly,but let him make the next
advance in asking you out.If he doesn't immediately,don't get upset.Perhaps he's shy,
if you see him in class and he's still interested I believe in chatting you may still
get an invite to another get together.If not,give him time perhaps he's getting over a gal or not ready to be more than college mates,time will tell..Best of luck,your British galpal,Bellina..