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| Sun, 05-02-2004 - 6:21am |
He calls me his girlfriend and tells me that I am "the one". The issue I need advice with is that besides the fact, I have a feeling he jumped from friend to waiting at the altar in a single bound. As, I am still wondering what happened and if I missed something somewhere, mainly because we have never kissed just hugged. That for all his telling me I am the one for him, for my part I am not feeling it, I just feel like his best friend. I have tried in a gentle way to tell him and have even asked him when I did become his girlfriend, to which no answer came back. Maybe because he does not know himself.
Some of my family and friends, tell me that there is not always a lightening bolt when two folks get together. But shouldn't there at least be an ember, spark, something? Should I make the first move and kiss him or keep waiting for him too?

Good luck...post back what happens...Im curious...Ive never heard of anything like this.