Need some advice

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Registered: 08-24-2003
Need some advice
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Sun, 05-02-2004 - 6:21am
I met someone back in January and we have been out several times since then. I have even met and had supper with his parents a couple of times.

He calls me his girlfriend and tells me that I am "the one". The issue I need advice with is that besides the fact, I have a feeling he jumped from friend to waiting at the altar in a single bound. As, I am still wondering what happened and if I missed something somewhere, mainly because we have never kissed just hugged. That for all his telling me I am the one for him, for my part I am not feeling it, I just feel like his best friend. I have tried in a gentle way to tell him and have even asked him when I did become his girlfriend, to which no answer came back. Maybe because he does not know himself.

Some of my family and friends, tell me that there is not always a lightening bolt when two folks get together. But shouldn't there at least be an ember, spark, something? Should I make the first move and kiss him or keep waiting for him too?

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Registered: 04-01-2003
In reply to: aronrica
Sun, 05-02-2004 - 7:42am
If he is telling you that you are "the one" and you havent kissed....dating for five months....you two need to TALK face to face. This is not an email addressable issue....

Good luck...post back what happens...Im curious...Ive never heard of anything like this.

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Registered: 07-24-2003
In reply to: aronrica
Sun, 05-02-2004 - 10:19am
Hello aronrica, welcome to the board!