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| Tue, 05-08-2007 - 10:37pm |
Currently I am dating a guy I have known for over 2 months. Since we meet we almost talk to each other more than 2-3 times a week and always see each other once a week.
Since last 4 dates, things changed he has been saying things like "you are been noisy and your view of love still act like a high school girl". One time he said to me "You never leave me voice mail and that is not nice. If you don't leave me any voice mail I will not return your call." (His cell phone has caller ID, he knows evertime when people call him.) I don't get it why he wants me to leave him a voice mail since he already know I called him. There is one time I told him I am "sad" about what the words he said to me he said you are "upset" about me. I told him I am not mad or angry about what you said. I am just sad and hurt. Then he told me to check dictionary what's the difference between " sad" and " upset". That makes me even more 'sad'. I admit I am a sensitive person, I care everything he said to me, but everytime when he pick out these things makes me hurt even more.
Here is what I need your expert tips, Is this normal for guys? Do they say these things to their girl?
Should I continue this relationship or should I stop seeing him.
Thanks for reading my problems

dollhc...
Pianoguy thinks if this man is PICKING ON YOU NOW......he'll really bitch about you if you ever got serious!
DUMP HIM!
And find someone who appreciates you for your bad qualities...as well as your good ones!
Pianoguy
"Is this normal for guys?" - No.
Anyone who needs to be this critical in order to feel comfortable in their environment, has major control issues and should not date any woman because he will just ruin her.
Pianoguy gives good advice.