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Need some Serious Advice HERE PLEASE
| Wed, 04-07-2004 - 11:58am |
Im a lesbian and the moment I saw this girl I knew I was attracted to her. THe downfall to it is that she just got engaged. Well we have become friends now and infact we just got back from Las Vegas this weekend. Both her and my friends all say though that she flirts with me when she is not with her fiancee to be. Whenever we are at a bar and her man isnt there then she tells people that we are TOGETHER. In Vegas we went to a club and we finally kissed due to guys not believing we were "Together" like she said we were. Im getting very confused. I dont know if she is doing this for fun or what but I dont know what to do since I am good friends with her now too. Do "straight girls" normally kiss thier lesbian friends?????? HELP. Is she bi-curious and that is why she flirts with me???? Her friends say that the way she acts towards me is different from how she is with them, and they think that she might have a little crush on me. Please Help me.

There is the possibility that she's curious. But it could also be warm, girly friend behavior. I'm straight and not curious, but I would kiss one of my girlfriends if I was in a bar being hit on by a guy I didn't want near me. But we've been friends for 7 years and she's like my sister. Then again, this girl is engaged.
Have you ever asked her if she's ever been curious?
Ivy
georgiasugarbaby@yahoo.com
Edited 4/7/2004 2:21 pm ET ET by poisonivyprincess
This might sound like a strange question, but has her fiancee ever flirted with you? Do you hang out with him at all?
Erin
quickblade14@hotmail.com
I think the situation is simple. If she's no longer engaged, then I'd worry about the things you are worried about, but not until then.
I am bisexual and always will prefer to dance with my girlfriends versus guys in the club I don't know; I hold hands for confidence, not to announce a relationship that doesn't exist. She maybe into you, she may be having cold feet about settling down, she may want to experience other things before marriage and her husband's control stops it. Ask her. She will hopefully answer truthfully.