NEED SOME SERIOUS OPINIONS
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NEED SOME SERIOUS OPINIONS
| Thu, 05-20-2004 - 10:25am |
HELLO TO ALL,
I NEED SOME INPUT ON HOW YOU SEE THIS SITUATION. I HAVE BEEN GOING OUT WITH THIS GUY FOR ABOUT 9 MONTHS AND I HAVE NO COMPLAINS EXCEPT FOR ONE FACTOR THAT KEEPS COMING UP.HE IS WONDERFUL HE TREATS ME RIGHT HE IS THERE FOR ME HE COMPLIMENTS ME DAILY. HE SAYS HE LOVES ME AND FOR ONCE IN MY LIFE I CANNOT DOUBT IT. 2 WEEKS AGO I WAS IN A CAR ACCIDENT AND HE WAS THERE FOR ME. WE NEVER HAD A FIGHT WE HAVE DISAGREMNETS BUT NOTHING SERIOUSLY. WHENEVER I CALL HIM HE ALWAYS PICKS HIS PHONE. ABOUT 2 MONTHS AGO THINGS WERE ROCKY HE NEVER USED TO RETURN MY CALL SO I STOOP CALLING HIM AFTER 5 DAYS HE CALLS AND WONDERS WHY I NEVER CALL EVER SINCE THEN THIS HAS CHANGE HE CALLS ME REGULARLY AND PICKS HIS PHONE WE DO STUFF TOGETHER I MET HIS FAMILY AND VICE VERSA. LAST FRIDAY HE OFFERS TO COOK ME DINNER BUT DOESN'T WANT TO DO IT AT MY HOUSE. HE GIVES A COUPLE OF OPTIONS LIKE COOKING THE DINNER AND BRINGING IT FOR ME BUT THEN HE SAID NO HE WANTS ME TO BE THERE WHEN HE COOKS IT HE SAYS MAYBE AT HIS HOUSE(WHICH I HAVE NEVER BEEN TO, HE JUST BOUGHT A HOUSE IN RHODE ISLAND AND I LIVE IN BOSTON) HE DOESN'T PUSH THE IDEA SO MUCH THEN HE SAYS WE NEED TO FIND SOMEWHERE . THEN I WAS THAT DOESN'T MAKE SENSE HE KNOWS THAT TOO. MY QUESTION HERE NOW IS WHAT'S ALL THIS ABOUT. A WONDERFUL GUY HE HIS. EVERY MOMENT SPENT WITH HIM IS JOY HE AGREES. HE SAYS I'M AN ISPIRATION HE WRITES MUSIC. HE STARES DEEP IN MY EYES AND I COULD FEEL HIS FEELINGS FOR ME. SO TELL ME HOW DO YOU SEE THIS RELATIONSHIP I HAVE NEVER BEEN TO HIS HOUSE WHICH HE BOUGHT 2 MONTHS AGO AND EVERYTHING ABOUT THE RELATIONSHIP IS WORKING OK? ANY INSIGHTS WILL BE GREATLY APPRECIATED THANKS
I NEED SOME INPUT ON HOW YOU SEE THIS SITUATION. I HAVE BEEN GOING OUT WITH THIS GUY FOR ABOUT 9 MONTHS AND I HAVE NO COMPLAINS EXCEPT FOR ONE FACTOR THAT KEEPS COMING UP.HE IS WONDERFUL HE TREATS ME RIGHT HE IS THERE FOR ME HE COMPLIMENTS ME DAILY. HE SAYS HE LOVES ME AND FOR ONCE IN MY LIFE I CANNOT DOUBT IT. 2 WEEKS AGO I WAS IN A CAR ACCIDENT AND HE WAS THERE FOR ME. WE NEVER HAD A FIGHT WE HAVE DISAGREMNETS BUT NOTHING SERIOUSLY. WHENEVER I CALL HIM HE ALWAYS PICKS HIS PHONE. ABOUT 2 MONTHS AGO THINGS WERE ROCKY HE NEVER USED TO RETURN MY CALL SO I STOOP CALLING HIM AFTER 5 DAYS HE CALLS AND WONDERS WHY I NEVER CALL EVER SINCE THEN THIS HAS CHANGE HE CALLS ME REGULARLY AND PICKS HIS PHONE WE DO STUFF TOGETHER I MET HIS FAMILY AND VICE VERSA. LAST FRIDAY HE OFFERS TO COOK ME DINNER BUT DOESN'T WANT TO DO IT AT MY HOUSE. HE GIVES A COUPLE OF OPTIONS LIKE COOKING THE DINNER AND BRINGING IT FOR ME BUT THEN HE SAID NO HE WANTS ME TO BE THERE WHEN HE COOKS IT HE SAYS MAYBE AT HIS HOUSE(WHICH I HAVE NEVER BEEN TO, HE JUST BOUGHT A HOUSE IN RHODE ISLAND AND I LIVE IN BOSTON) HE DOESN'T PUSH THE IDEA SO MUCH THEN HE SAYS WE NEED TO FIND SOMEWHERE . THEN I WAS THAT DOESN'T MAKE SENSE HE KNOWS THAT TOO. MY QUESTION HERE NOW IS WHAT'S ALL THIS ABOUT. A WONDERFUL GUY HE HIS. EVERY MOMENT SPENT WITH HIM IS JOY HE AGREES. HE SAYS I'M AN ISPIRATION HE WRITES MUSIC. HE STARES DEEP IN MY EYES AND I COULD FEEL HIS FEELINGS FOR ME. SO TELL ME HOW DO YOU SEE THIS RELATIONSHIP I HAVE NEVER BEEN TO HIS HOUSE WHICH HE BOUGHT 2 MONTHS AGO AND EVERYTHING ABOUT THE RELATIONSHIP IS WORKING OK? ANY INSIGHTS WILL BE GREATLY APPRECIATED THANKS

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