Need Some Serious Relationship Help!!
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Need Some Serious Relationship Help!!
| Wed, 11-16-2005 - 6:47pm |
Ok where to start..well first off I'm 18 and I'm graduating this year, but I got a slight problem...I have 2 boyfriends and well proms comin soon...I've had them both for the past year almost and well I don't know what to do..yea it seemed fun at the time..but its a lot harder and frustrating now..It gets pretty complicated when trying to figure out which one I want to be with because of so much thats happened to me last year and sometimes I wish I could dump both of them or one of them dump me...Some of my friends tell me to dump one of them but they don't understand and others tell me to wait and time will tell..but I have been waiting and times getting short..I can tell you one thing about both of them..well the first ones 110% committed to me..but then again it seems kind of clingy and he wants to spend the rest of his life with me..but then the other ones unpredictable..and for some reason I like that beacsue I don't always like my future planned out...I love surprises...but really it all comes down to the heart break..I'm afraid I'll make the wrong choice if i choose the wrong one..but then again I'm the one cheating in the first place so shouldn't I have to pay for what I've done? Yea it seems really complicated, but I just wish someone could help me and hopefully someone here understands what I'm dealing wiht and I know I shouldn't have done it in the first place, but now its just eating me insde and I have to deal with it now or its going to get worse!...anyways thanks for your time and hope you can help
CiCi
Ps.you can ask me questions or email me at xoxocicixoxo@hotmail.com....if you really want to help!!!...thanks!!:P
CiCi
Ps.you can ask me questions or email me at xoxocicixoxo@hotmail.com....if you really want to help!!!...thanks!!:P

Have you agreed to exclusivity with either one of them? If not, you aren't doing anything wrong.
It's November, when is your prom? If it isn't for a few months I wouldn't get too worked up over the situation. A lot can happen between now and May. I'd tell both of them you don't have time to think about something that is so far off, that way you can hold off making a decision for a few months.
If you are still with both of them by, let's say, February or March, come back here and give us much more information about both men and we can help you sort out which one to cut loose and which one to take to the prom.