Needy Guy..Help!!

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Registered: 04-12-2004
Needy Guy..Help!!
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Sun, 11-04-2007 - 12:56am
I met this guy about 5 years ago at our college orientation.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 11-21-2003
In reply to: rr46
Sun, 11-04-2007 - 1:54am

Honey, you're dating an obsessive guy who will become your stalker once you break it up. His behavior is odd and obsessive. His never ending calls and texts AND comments of marrying after a few weeks of dating are a HUGE RED FLAG.

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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: rr46
Sun, 11-04-2007 - 11:50am

He's incredibly needy and unhealthy.

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Registered: 06-08-2006
In reply to: rr46
Sun, 11-04-2007 - 12:34pm

I am very leary of men that come on that strong so early in a relationship.

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Registered: 10-14-1999
In reply to: rr46
Sun, 11-04-2007 - 12:57pm

Forget normal. It just plain ain't healthy. nothing about this is good.


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Toni

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Registered: 04-12-2004
In reply to: rr46
Sun, 11-04-2007 - 5:18pm

Thanks for all of the advice!

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Registered: 10-17-2002
In reply to: rr46
Sun, 11-04-2007 - 6:35pm
If you do like him, it's worth telling him at least once to back off and take it easy.

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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: rr46
Sun, 11-04-2007 - 6:50pm

I don't think a needy, unhealthy guy is going to be able to transform himself into independent, healthy guy just because you say something to him, but if you want to give it a try before you end it, sure, why not.


Sheri

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Registered: 04-12-2004
In reply to: rr46
Sun, 11-04-2007 - 7:28pm

I just told him everything.

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-12-2004
In reply to: rr46
Sun, 11-04-2007 - 7:39pm

One more thing I think I should mention that I didn't.

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-14-1999
In reply to: rr46
Sun, 11-04-2007 - 8:19pm

Girl RUN! RUN! RUN! this guy is an abuser waiting to happen.


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Toni

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