Needy Guy..Help!!

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-12-2004
Needy Guy..Help!!
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Sun, 11-04-2007 - 12:56am
I met this guy about 5 years ago at our college orientation.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 10-09-2007
In reply to: rr46
Sun, 11-04-2007 - 8:48pm

Haha, that's so funny.

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-09-2007
In reply to: rr46
Sun, 11-04-2007 - 8:58pm

I have had two stalkers this year.

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-27-2006
In reply to: rr46
Mon, 11-05-2007 - 6:43am

I know this sucks.

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-19-2006
In reply to: rr46
Wed, 11-07-2007 - 4:35pm

rr46. As ALL posters have said... RUN RUN RUN. This is very serious. You have not been involved with this guy for long.

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-19-2006
In reply to: rr46
Wed, 11-07-2007 - 4:36pm

Yes. He is an alcoholic. And you certainly don't want THAT in your life!

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-08-2006
In reply to: rr46
Thu, 11-08-2007 - 4:11pm

This says it all. Sit down, take a deep breath, lace up your nikes and run like hell. If you ask a guy to back off and he argues with you and tries to convince you to be his girlfriend he has bigger problems that being dumped by a girl he just met.

good luck,

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-12-2004
In reply to: rr46
Sun, 11-11-2007 - 1:59am

Thanks for all of the responses! Here's an update:


I called him (from a blocked number since I changed my cell #), and told him this just wasn't going anywhere and we just weren't right for each other.

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-14-1999
In reply to: rr46
Sun, 11-11-2007 - 9:12am

Good for you.


But don't forget - take a look within to see what in you is attracting this kind of man. When you can ID the things in you that feeds into this kind of instant romance you will be able to take the parts you need to take from that and use it to your benefit - in other words, you are in control and will be better able to filter the right and wrong men and situations better.


take care and best wishes.

Toni

Toni

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-15-2003
In reply to: rr46
Sun, 11-11-2007 - 11:10am

He definitely is super needy - this is not normal.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 11-10-2007
In reply to: rr46
Sun, 11-11-2007 - 4:44pm

I have not experienced the type of behavior you described from a guy.

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