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| Fri, 01-19-2007 - 11:02am |
I went out on a first date with this guy and in the course of the conversation he admitted to me that over the past 2 years he's spent money he should have been saving on "females." This is a major turnoff for me and I can't stop thinking about it. Otherwise, we had a decent time. I don't want to be judgemental but that is really something I don't agree with and makes me wonder what kind of guy he really is. Any advice?

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Did he mean prostitutes? As Vexer said, without knowing exactly what he meant, it's hard to know how to take his comment.
Sheri
Ok, in that case, I personally would "next!" the guy--someone who frequents prostitutes isn't going to be someone I'm compatible with. That to me is a reflection of his character and his attitude towards women.
Sheri
<< I went out on a first date with this guy and in the course of the conversation he admitted to me that over the past 2 years he's spent money he should have been saving on "females.">>
Whoa now, did he actually say he should have been saving on prostitutes? Or did he say females?
If he said prostitutues, well obviously, NEXT!
But, if he said he shoudl have been saving on females ... while its kind of a weird thing to say, I'd take it as perhaps he newly back in the dating game and recognizing that dating is/can be expensive. Which still isn't a very P.C. thing to say ... but, it's hardly the same as saving money for hookers!
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