Is new boyfriend TOO into me???
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Is new boyfriend TOO into me???
| Mon, 07-19-2004 - 7:48am |
I met this guy just over 3 weeks ago. We had our first date on just over 2 weeks ago and wow, did we click! Ever since then, there hasn't been a day when we don't see each other. Half the time we spend the day together and he'll stay over or if he does go home, he'll call me that evening to say goodnight. We have already gotten into a rut where he comes and stays over 4 of the 7 nights and the other 3 he just stops by after work for an hour or two and then we do our own thing. I even leave the door open for him so he can go in if I'm not home yet. I've wanted a guy who really wanted to be with me for so long now because all the guys I meet go out with me once or twice or never even call me back. This guy has brought me flowers (first time I've ever received any in my 32 years!) and is so affectionate with me and just wants to be with me as much as possible. He had a rough last relationship and his girlfriend cheated on him. He said he had been very depressed and bored because so many things had gone wrong for him until he met me. He says he's still insecure which is why he wants to make sure I'm happy with everything. The thing is, as much as I enjoy being with him, I'm really missing my alone time. Even if I go into the bathroom to dry my hair or get ready, he follows me in there and just sits and watches me or puts his arms around me. He told me last night over the phone that he's even self conscious at the grocery store when we go because he doesn't want to look at anyone else, just me. I told him not to be weird like that, that if there's someone attractive, you will look at them, it's just natural. He said that he understands if I do it, but he just doesn't want to.
What exactly is he getting at? He is so afraid that I will cheat on him. Is he way too into me too soon? It kind of freaks me out, but then again this is what I have always wanted.
What exactly is he getting at? He is so afraid that I will cheat on him. Is he way too into me too soon? It kind of freaks me out, but then again this is what I have always wanted.

what is sounds like to me is that b/c he was cheated on in his last relationship, hes trying to keep you around, ie. in his view and touch base w/ you as much as possible to make sure you wont cheat on him too. i think he's trying to prove to you what kind of man he is and what he is capable of so that you will realize he's a great cetch and not look elsewhere for lovin.
that's what i got out of it. (it sounded more complete in my head...hope you understand)
good luck
sarah
You need to set the boundaries that YOU are comfortable with.