new boyfriend/scared & confused

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Registered: 04-07-2004
new boyfriend/scared & confused
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Wed, 04-07-2004 - 6:36pm
I have been dating this guy for just two months. Within the past two months he has been pursuing this relationship at full force... calling everyday, wanting to be with me almost everyday. He is 31 and I am 32. We have the same birthday... both leos. Every day we have spent together has been amazing. We are also extremely passionate. He got divorced last June after being married for three years. He called me a few days ago and told me that he is falling in love with me however he is scared and does not want a relationship right now. I am so upset at him for taking this so seriously so soon, after all it has been only 2 months. He wants to take a step back and try to see each other less... this is coming from a person who wants to see me almost everyday. In fact, I have been the one to say no, not tonight I will see you tomorrow or this weekend. So now I am trying to make sense of what to do. Part of me wants to cut all ties with him and mend my broken heart. But because I do really like him I wonder, do I just let him go through this and still see him? ARHG!
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Registered: 04-07-2004
Wed, 04-07-2004 - 9:06pm
My guess is that since his divorce is final less than a year and he moved so fast these past two months, he is not ready for a serious relationship right now.