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| Thu, 06-28-2007 - 4:24pm |
Hi everyone! I have a bit of a problem and want to see if anyone would be able to lend a hand! I am 19 and I have just finished my second year at community college so in the fall I will be attending a University (I am only moving about 45 minutes away from home). In my business class this past semester a guy named David sat next to me every day and on the last day of class he asked me for my phone number. I come to find out that he thought I was cute the whole semester but he was too afraid to get my phone number in case I said "no" because then the class would become akward for both of us! He also tried to talk to me for the whole semester but I am just a really, really shy person (he is the exact opposite). Anyway, for about a month we have been hanging out almost every day and we have constantly been texting each other. Last week was the first week in which we did not hang out almost every day and he has been texting me less. Of course, this makes me become anxious but he says it is just because he has been busier at work than usual! I do believe him... This week he started classes so now he rarely texts me and the last day we saw each other was Monday night (which isn't too long ago). Anyway, he's moving to a new school next semester and he will be 3 hours away from my new school. So, if we were to start dating it would be a long distance relationship!
Here is my dilemma...should I be worried about him not texting me/seeing me as much? He also seems to be treating me differently than when we first started hanging out- he says it's because he's more comfortable around me now. Do you think this is true? Also, on the phone two days ago I said that I really like him but that the timing just sucks for us going out and he pretty much agreed and then he said that he and I both have to make a tough decision on whether or not we want to date each other. If you were in my shoes, what would you do? I really do like him. He makes me laugh and he opens car doors for me. He also treats me really well. I just don't know what to do...maybe I just needed to vent. I guess I want to show him that I'm worth his while to get into a relationship with!
Thanks for any advice you may have!!
-Brigitte
ps. He has had me meet his parents, and everyone at his work, and his two best friends and they ALL really like me. He says that they never liked his past girlfriends- especially from the beginning. Is this a good thing when it comes down to whether or not he will date me?
Here is my dilemma...should I be worried about him not texting me/seeing me as much? He also seems to be treating me differently than when we first started hanging out- he says it's because he's more comfortable around me now. Do you think this is true? Also, on the phone two days ago I said that I really like him but that the timing just sucks for us going out and he pretty much agreed and then he said that he and I both have to make a tough decision on whether or not we want to date each other. If you were in my shoes, what would you do? I really do like him. He makes me laugh and he opens car doors for me. He also treats me really well. I just don't know what to do...maybe I just needed to vent. I guess I want to show him that I'm worth his while to get into a relationship with!
Thanks for any advice you may have!!
-Brigitte
ps. He has had me meet his parents, and everyone at his work, and his two best friends and they ALL really like me. He says that they never liked his past girlfriends- especially from the beginning. Is this a good thing when it comes down to whether or not he will date me?
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| Thu, 06-28-2007 - 5:58pm |
People get lazy in a relationship once they get comfortable. David needs to understand that he needs to keep up the romance even if he is comfortable otherwise things get boring. You have mentioned to him that you miss his frequent communication but he responds with that he is busier. I know that you like the guy, but if he moves 3 hours away, his efforts may lessen even further, based on his past actions. If he doesn't see by now that you are worth being his GF then HE is not worth it.
| Sat, 06-30-2007 - 9:07am |
Yes, keeping things fresh and romantic are essential in any relationship
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