new guy = never committed and is 38
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| Tue, 05-18-2004 - 12:21am |
He's had bad relationships, but so have I. He is stubbord and unyielding but he keeps coming back and we keep making up. Everytime we have a "discussion", he claims we're arguing and heads for the door, then leaves, then calls, says he's sorry and asks if he can come over. Very stubborn... I don't think we are very compatible as I am a Gemini - he's a libra. He just seems very negative and i feel he's pulling me down. I am in good shape, (great) I work out and look great for my age. He works out 4-5 times per week, is very buff and is getting the 6 pack. My tummy is flat but since a child and a c-section, I made a comment I was very comfortable in my own skin, that my tummy probably bothered him more than me, and he said "you may be right". What kind of comment is that. I am very secure w/my body and my looks, and sometimes I feel he tries to make me feel inadequate to make himself feel better. He states he's very confident, but I told him there was a fine line between confidence and conceit. He's in the mirror more than I.
Should i just keep searching...help

Maybe the reason he has never committed is his nonchalant attitude toward women, his arrogance and his insensitivity.
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