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| Fri, 06-11-2004 - 6:28pm |
since he has been back for about 3 months, we have hardly hung out, makes short pitstops at my house to say hi, won't get physical with me, and now says he doesn't know what he wants. the last time i spoke to him i told him for the 100th time that i was tired of being a doormat, wanted to know where i stand, and told him that i was not happy the way things were. all things he has heard from me b4. he responded by saying i think we should sit down and talk about it if we are going to be together. that was two weeks ago. NEVER heard from him again!!!!! He said he had to go b/c he was working all night, and i expected that mean't i will talk to you tomorrow or the following week. NOTHING. i just can't understand this, not even an explanation???? i haven't called him b/c i am always the one having to call and be the bigger person. i am so hurt and confused that i cannot call him nor do i think i should have to.
what does this mean??? why wouldn't he call me back?? it seems like all the men in my life find it so easy to walk away abruptly and with no explanation. i think it is so disrespectful. i am so down about this that i feel jinxed b/c there is no reason this should have happened.
please help.......thanks for listening

Pianoguy's first reaction was that YOU were a 'rebound romance' for Mr. Army! But after you explained that men have abruptly dumped you without any explanation leads him to believe that there's a possessiveness or some trait of yours that's turning these men off?
Your heart might be in the right place and you might be very loving...but there might be certain habits, phrases or mannerisms that make the men you've been seeing very uncomfortable? You also might be limiting yourself to a certain type of man...a.k.a. the ones who will enjoy your company for awhile...then move on to somebody else.
If you can remember your past b/f's...and what might have been said that caused your relationships to suddenly disintegrate...you might be able to correct the problem before it happens again? I'm not suggesting that the flaws are 100% yours...but if ALL your b/f's have walked out on you without an explanation...there HAS to be a similarity or two somewhere?
Pianoguy
good luck